WARNING: THIS BLOG POST CONTAINS A LOT OF WHINING and some sarcasm.
I'm trying to work at this tedious, awful voice recognition job that my job has turned into while dealing with multiple phone calls regarding my mom. She's still not happy but she wasn't happy at home either. No matter what we do, no matter how much we visit and call, she's not happy. I don't know what to do. When my aunt called me about it this morning, I told her that she was asking me for the impossible. No matter how long I stay, one minute after I leave, mom will be lonely. No matter how long I talk to her on the phone, as soon as I hang up, she will be lonely again. I can't bring her into my loud, rowdy rambunctious home of teenagers, dogs and cats. I can't imagine that she could stand that and I know I probably couldn't, not that we have room. If she went to live with my brother, she would still be alone 12 hours a day and in another city so that I couldn't visit her as often. It's just an all around lose/lose situation for everyone involved. It's sad. You can love a person and try to please a person, but you cannot make someone else happy.
Meanwhile, my brother and I are trying to get her mail transferred, trying to get her subscriptions moved out to where she is now, trying to manage her money, trying to winterize her house, trying to cope with it all while also dealing with a situation that has come up with mom's caregiver that I don't feel comfortable sharing here, but it is bad, trust me.
And with all of that, we are heading into the holidays when we try to have so much fun and do so much extra stuff and I personally just end up feeling more stressed, every year.